Duality Relationship
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Dual relationships are the most optimal for the life of the individual. Dual relationships are the most comfortable, there is no need to adapt to each other. Communicating with a dual, a person can remain himself. A natural, conditioned by nature, conditioned division of duties takes place, and a person in a dual pair gets the opportunity to engage in a feasible and interesting task.
Conflicts rarely arise in dual pairs, and if they do, they are quickly and painlessly resolved. Partners come together as two halves of a torn photo, together constituting one whole. But precisely because mutual understanding is quickly established and there are no internal sources of tension, the dual cannot be immediately distinguished from other people. Dual seems too simple and understandable, and therefore not worthy of attention. This is the first position that a person can take when they meet a dual. It is rather characteristic of extroverts. The second position is when you say to yourself: he is too good for me, I can hardly like him. This position is more characteristic of the introvert. Both of these positions are found in people who have not had the experience of dual communication in childhood.
How to feel the effect of duality? At the time of communicating with a dual, a person does not initially experience particular comfort. In dual relationships, everything proceeds mundanely and does not evoke any emotions. The dual is perceived as a shadow, as something completely natural and therefore meaningless. As far as this person was needed, you perceive only when you parted with him. A person perceives and experiences the loss of duals very sharply, he does not find a place for himself for a long time. Having become accustomed to the dual, having acquired the experience of dualization, you begin to finally realize that its presence calms you down, gives you a sense of security. With favorable subtypes, this effect is enhanced even more.
However, the value of dual relations should not be overestimated. This is the norm of relationships for everyday life, for everyday life. Having acquired duality, a person wants more, namely the social significance of his personality, some kind of struggle, deviation from the norm. Within the framework of duality, this goal is not achieved. But without a dual security, social recognition is extremely difficult for a person to achieve. But in general, a person cannot do without dualization only in two cases: first, when the very life of a person is at stake, that is, for survival in adverse conditions of the social environment, and second, when a person moves up the social ladder in the face of intense competition, i.e. for a career.
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Social relations: These relations include Duality, Activity, Super-ego, and Conflict. These relations are designed for fitting into society, creating a family, making a circle of friends, finding one's social group. These relations put a load on type's vital functions (positions 3, 4, 5, 6).
Duality (Light Social) – Family with few children that lives separately from relatives. In the foreground is convenience, application of minimum of effort while achieving maximum results in getting along in the household.
Duality - in-phase energy oscillations of opposite temperaments. Dual relations provide for the greatest degree of life comfort to both partners.
Receptive-Adaptive Relationships: This temperament has a relationship: Duality, Redemption, Semi-duality, Mirage. This temperament makes the outcome very sensitive, leads partners to adjust, the natural synchronization of their actions. The key word for them is BALANCE.
The balance of receptive-adaptive relations is mobile, deviating and self-restoring. The temperaments of the partners more or less compensate each other, giving rise to the desire for homeostasis. Time works to stabilize this relationship, smoothing more and more the sharp angles of the opposites.
Duality - vital balance. Non-violent convergence of partners' own life rhythms in a dyad, sometimes up to complete merging. The essence of duality conveys well the term having symbiosis of biological origin. Symbiosis - the cohabitation of organisms of different species on the basis of mutual satisfaction of vital needs.
Comfortable hospitality: Interesting welcoming communication that never gets boring. In the behavior of the partners balance each other, creating a sense of psychological "weightlessness." No need to control their actions, you can stay yourself. Due to the fact that responsibilities in any case are distributed almost automatically, a lot of energy is saved for new affairs. Disagreements and disputes are settled not by compromise - finding the middle line, but through cooperation, i.e. opening the true needs of the other, which do not contradict yours, and meeting them.
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ESE-LII
EIE-LSI
SLE-IEI
SEE-ILI
LIE-ESI
LSE-EII
IEE-SLI
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Dual relationships are the most optimal for the life of the individual. Dual relationships are the most comfortable, there is no need to adapt to each other. Communicating with a dual, a person can remain himself. A natural, conditioned by nature, conditioned division of duties takes place, and a person in a dual pair gets the opportunity to engage in a feasible and interesting task.
Conflicts rarely arise in dual pairs, and if they do, they are quickly and painlessly resolved. Partners come together as two halves of a torn photo, together constituting one whole. But precisely because mutual understanding is quickly established and there are no internal sources of tension, the dual cannot be immediately distinguished from other people. Dual seems too simple and understandable, and therefore not worthy of attention. This is the first position that a person can take when they meet a dual. It is rather characteristic of extroverts. The second position is when you say to yourself: he is too good for me, I can hardly like him. This position is more characteristic of the introvert. Both of these positions are found in people who have not had the experience of dual communication in childhood.
How to feel the effect of duality? At the time of communicating with a dual, a person does not initially experience particular comfort. In dual relationships, everything proceeds mundanely and does not evoke any emotions. The dual is perceived as a shadow, as something completely natural and therefore meaningless. As far as this person was needed, you perceive only when you parted with him. A person perceives and experiences the loss of duals very sharply, he does not find a place for himself for a long time. Having become accustomed to the dual, having acquired the experience of dualization, you begin to finally realize that its presence calms you down, gives you a sense of security. With favorable subtypes, this effect is enhanced even more.
However, the value of dual relations should not be overestimated. This is the norm of relationships for everyday life, for everyday life. Having acquired duality, a person wants more, namely the social significance of his personality, some kind of struggle, deviation from the norm. Within the framework of duality, this goal is not achieved. But without a dual security, social recognition is extremely difficult for a person to achieve. But in general, a person cannot do without dualization only in two cases: first, when the very life of a person is at stake, that is, for survival in adverse conditions of the social environment, and second, when a person moves up the social ladder in the face of intense competition, i.e. for a career.
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Social relations: These relations include Duality, Activity, Super-ego, and Conflict. These relations are designed for fitting into society, creating a family, making a circle of friends, finding one's social group. These relations put a load on type's vital functions (positions 3, 4, 5, 6).
Duality (Light Social) – Family with few children that lives separately from relatives. In the foreground is convenience, application of minimum of effort while achieving maximum results in getting along in the household.
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Decelerating-accelerating Relations: These relations are similar to a swinging pendulum, but in contrast with relations of resonance they do not require compulsory attuning from partners. Such an adjustment is automatic after a while. The movement goes from minus (deceleration) to plus (acceleration) in the first half of the cycle of interaction and then swings in the opposite direction in the second half of the cycle. Adaptation of partners to each other takes place more smoothly and naturally than in relations of resonance. Thus another name for these types of relations is "symbiotic relations". Symbiosis is a mutually beneficial co-existence based on cooperation. The main recommendation for symbiotic relations: "surrender to the will of the waves," do not try to prove anything to each other, strictly separate duties, behave the way you want to and allow for your partner to do same. The trait of rationality / irrationality has an effect on these relations. Semi-dual relations are more favorable in a rational dyad while mirage relations are more favorable in irrational dyad.
Decelerating-accelerating Relations: These relations are similar to a swinging pendulum, but in contrast with relations of resonance they do not require compulsory attuning from partners. Such an adjustment is automatic after a while. The movement goes from minus (deceleration) to plus (acceleration) in the first half of the cycle of interaction and then swings in the opposite direction in the second half of the cycle. Adaptation of partners to each other takes place more smoothly and naturally than in relations of resonance. Thus another name for these types of relations is "symbiotic relations". Symbiosis is a mutually beneficial co-existence based on cooperation. The main recommendation for symbiotic relations: "surrender to the will of the waves," do not try to prove anything to each other, strictly separate duties, behave the way you want to and allow for your partner to do same. The trait of rationality / irrationality has an effect on these relations. Semi-dual relations are more favorable in a rational dyad while mirage relations are more favorable in irrational dyad.
Duality - in-phase energy oscillations of opposite temperaments. Dual relations provide for the greatest degree of life comfort to both partners.
The balance of receptive-adaptive relations is mobile, deviating and self-restoring. The temperaments of the partners more or less compensate each other, giving rise to the desire for homeostasis. Time works to stabilize this relationship, smoothing more and more the sharp angles of the opposites.
Duality - vital balance. Non-violent convergence of partners' own life rhythms in a dyad, sometimes up to complete merging. The essence of duality conveys well the term having symbiosis of biological origin. Symbiosis - the cohabitation of organisms of different species on the basis of mutual satisfaction of vital needs.
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Comfortable hospitality: Interesting welcoming communication that never gets boring. In the behavior of the partners balance each other, creating a sense of psychological "weightlessness." No need to control their actions, you can stay yourself. Due to the fact that responsibilities in any case are distributed almost automatically, a lot of energy is saved for new affairs. Disagreements and disputes are settled not by compromise - finding the middle line, but through cooperation, i.e. opening the true needs of the other, which do not contradict yours, and meeting them.
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Duality (Introverted Relation): Introversion is characterized by dual relationships: outsiders violate their communicative comfort greatly. But it is also not possible to quickly tie up duality for the same reasons. Duality is most appropriate for an independent small family, when there is no intrusive interference of relatives, or friendship with joint pastime outside populous companies.
Duality (Irrational Relation): Dual relations belong to this class. They are the most free and relaxed of all IOs, they exclude strict plannedness and programmed actions. The feeling of well-functioning duality in this connection is comparable to the state of weightlessness - complete relaxedness in movement with the loss of body weight.
Duality (Ethical Relation): The ethical are dualistic relationships. They are characterized by sincerity and subtle emotionality, but at the same time by reduced mental activity. The dual pair cannot work intensively, since it does not contain stimuli for strenuous work.
Duality (Sensory Relation): The touch attitude is duality. This attitude provides physical comfort, averages the tastes and habits of people united in it. Duality brings relaxation and relaxation. Gusts of fantasy give way to the efforts to achieve real well-being in the prevailing conditions.
Duality (Dynamic Relation): In a dual relationship, contrasts of fun and boredom, pleasant communication and exhaustion await you. Dark periods will alternate with light, giving rise to the feeling of some kind of flight. Relationships resemble a slide on a well-oiled surface, where the convex parts are as many as the depressions. Partners are fully devoted to this demanding process, often completely forgetting about the problems of the surrounding world.
Duality (Evolutionary Relation): A very characteristic example of evolutionary relationship is duality . In a well-integrated dual pair, partners adopt so much from each other manners and behaviors that they become almost indistinguishable to an external observer. They seem to merge into one. Their socionic attributes are averaged: the extrovert becomes more introverted, and the introvert is extroverted, the intuitive becomes more specific, the sensory becomes more abstract, etc.
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