Mirage Relations

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These are relations of relaxation. They are sufficiently comfortable and pleasant and favorable for family life, but ineffective in common activity. No other type of intertype relation has the same capacity to relax, demobilize and demotivate partners as mirage relations. It feels comfortable to sit around, rest and discuss extraneous issues with one's mirage partner. The person as if blurs, falls out of focus, turns into shaky mirage. With such a partner one does not want to engage in any serious undertakings. Thus mutual business activity is complicated. Partners are completely at a loss when it comes to motives for each other's actions. What your mirage partner is striving towards seems unsubstantial, undeserving of attention. Partners expect different behavior from each other, thus they "cool" each other in whatever activities they do undertake. It is as if they are playing a game of broken phone. This kind of communication seems amusing from aside. It resembles humorous dialogues between Shirvindt and Derzhavin, when one abruptly and unceremoniously cuts the other off. The introverted partner in these relations will try to impede attempts of the extraverted partner to impose his opinion and reassert his autonomy. The extravert partner will in turn want to re-make the introvert partner into a "normal" person. Break ups in these relations are usually short lived. Partners are drawn to each other. At the same time, each partner evaluates the abilities of the other critically. At times relations become very warm. This happens when partners talk less, do more, and manage to accomplish something together. Discussions of results of successfully finished joint projects are encouraging, but attempts to start on a new project face the same difficulties as before. Together partners find it difficult to achieve much because their ability to assemble and perform organized work is much weakened.
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Advice for getting along:  These relationships can be classified as spontaneous. It is meaningless to wait for or demand some orderliness in behavior or to force your partner to act against his will. Relations allow for joint work of technical nature, but general entrepreneurial business activity in them is quite problematic.

Do not search for logic in behavior of your mirage partner. It is better not to argue about who is right, but have a heart-to-heart discussion about life and its complexities. Relations are conducive to relaxation and dreaming. They benefit from humor, from optimistic mood. They are characterized by interaction within small social circles with elements of sophistication and refined aesthetics.

Do not request hard commitments from each other. These relations are stable under mild conditions and gentle forms of behavior. Pay close attention to the mood of the other partner and adapt yourself accordingly. It will become evident who is the leader and who is following. Discuss strange, mysterious phenomena that inspire curiosity. When one partner picks up an activity, the other should try to join in and provide support without asking questions.
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Educational relations:  This group encompasses Mirage, Reverse request (benefit), Kindred, and Direct Supervision relations. They face the issue of accessing the inner world of man, addressing one's moral inquiries and inner sentiments. These relations amplify the axial (evaluative) functions - 1, 4, 6, 7. In these relations the goal is personal growth, offset or strengthening the evaluative criteria of the world and one's place in it.  This type of family is founded with the explicit or implicit goals of resolving internal psychological problems. A person in such union does not look so much for material or career support as for emotional support. For the reason of frequent household and organizational problems, life in these relations leads to crash of original illusions and ideals derived from literature.

Mirage (Light Educational) – Educational empathy, ability to comfort, optimism. After each collision the bitterness of disappointment eventually gives way to hope for a better future.

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Decelerating-accelerating relations: These relations are similar to a swinging pendulum, but in contrast with relations of resonance they do not require compulsory attuning from partners. Such an adjustment is automatic after a while. The movement goes from minus (deceleration) to plus (acceleration) in the first half of the cycle of interaction and then swings in the opposite direction in the second half of the cycle. Adaptation of partners to each other takes place more smoothly and naturally than in relations of resonance. Thus another name for these types of relations is "symbiotic relations". Symbiosis is a mutually beneficial co-existence based on cooperation. The main recommendation for symbiotic relations: "surrender to the will of the waves," do not try to prove anything to each other, strictly separate duties, behave the way you want to and allow for your partner to do same. The trait of rationality / irrationality has an effect on these relations. Semi-dual relations are more favorable in a rational dyad while mirage relations are more favorable in irrational dyad.

Mirage - lead by a quarter period, transition from Extinguishment to Duality. Main difficulties with adaptation arise in the beginning, but in the process of getting closer they smooth over. Partner is doing more than you expect from him.

Receptive-Adaptive Relations: This temperament has a relationship: Duality, Redemption, Semi-duality, Mirage. This temperament makes the outcome very sensitive, leads partners to adjust, the natural synchronization of their actions. The key word for them is BALANCE.
The balance of receptive-adaptive relations is mobile, deviating and self-restoring. The temperaments of the partners more or less compensate each other, giving rise to the desire for homeostasis. Time works to stabilize this relationship, smoothing more and more the sharp angles of the opposites.

Mirage - moral and psychological balance. Calming and comforting from one partner to another. A mirage dyad requires the allocation of a master and a slave. Slave will be the one who has accumulated more psychological problems and experiences. The facilitator will listen to him and tune in to an optimistic mood.

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Interruption of comfort:  Communication is not as interesting, as it is useful. Sense of comfort is achieved only if partners communicate calmly. Disagreements and disputes may arise quite suddenly. When both partners get into a stressful situation, the balance in upset: they cannot easily calm each other down. What is unpleasant is that at times your mirage partner may rudely without warning interfere with your affairs. As a result you will be prompted to confront him or her to reset your boundaries. Mirage partner commonly does not fully approve of your interests and hobbies. Discussions are not very productive.

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Mirror (Introverted Relation): The same effects make themselves felt in the mirage pair. Mirazhnik much more pleasant to communicate together than in a large group. Discussions that arise due to the influence of unauthorized persons can lead to serious disagreements. Such a couple is little interested in the outside world, focuses on their internal personal problems.

Mirror (Irrational Relation): Mirage is characterized by sporadic improvements and deterioration of mutual understanding. It requires first of all the ability to predict the behavior of a partner depending on his mood. Discussions on finding out the truth, finding a common point of view, etc. are ineffective. Mirage requires skill to make concessions. To develop any planned style of living together fails.

Mirror (Ethical Relation): Mirage relationships have a subtle lyrical emotionality, a peculiar sense of humor. Mirage is more suitable for idle rest than for productive labor. In the mirage couple there are strong internal emotions. For the stability of the mirage partners must sympathize with each other. The logical evidence for being right in this relationship does not make sense.

Mirror (Intuitive Relation): Curiosities are filled with curiosity in half with alarming forebodings. However, the joint plans of the partners are again illusory. In these relations, even having experienced the bitterness of the collapse of hopes, you do not lose faith in their improvement. Strengthening the intuitive abilities of partners helps them to refrain from rash actions, to adapt to each other.

Mirror (Dynamic Relation): For mirage relations, the variability of internal states is indicative - from a fascinating feeling of harmony to real malice towards a partner. When miragesy need to be sensitive to the motivations of the partner. The mutable lyrical and nostalgic states that periodically arise among mirazhnikov, strengthen their confidence in each other, but at the same time and generate sadness about the fragility of human happiness.

Mirror (Involutionary Relation): Mirage relations are also subject to inevitable breakdowns. In a mirage pair, partners seek autonomy, the rights to their own, distinct from other interests. Partners do not like each other's hobbies, their activity is often directed in opposite directions. In a dispute, everyone stubbornly insists on his own, not even trying to patiently explain his point of view to another. Spreading the distance or giving another freedom of action, the partners calm down for a while.

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